When someone lies to you, realize it’s never personal or meant to hurt you. They’re only lying to make themselves feel better, avoid unpleasant consequences or maintain control. When you make it about you, you hurt yourself. While it’s unpleasant to discover you’ve been lied to, remember that they’re doing it because they care about what you think and fear losing your love and respect. They need your compassion and you need to be kind to yourself…

And, don’t take offense.

Merci