Viewing life from the perspective of the witness gives us psychic space to think before we react. It allows us to look at any situation with a calm and cool perspective rather than the fearful perspective of someone who’s personal identity is threatened. Our egos, on the other hand, constantly seek to reinforce their stories. They continuously attempt to garner external confirmation to reinforce their sense of control. They’re easily threatened and need to be right. Witnesses feel comfortable without excessive fear or a tendency to blame. Witnesses know how to adapt nimbly and…

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Steve and Jarl