When opposites attract, people seek partners who have strengths that make up for their weaknesses. But this approach to relationships creates codependency, which usually leads to resentment. Depending on someone else to feel whole makes the thought of losing them so frightening that it interferes with your ability to be authentic and may induce you to try to manipulate your partner so you don’t ever lose them. You can heal this dysfunction by becoming aware of the ways that you’re dependent, feeling any fear you have around it and accepting yourself as you truly are…

Already whole.

Steve and Jarl