When a relationship gets boring, it may mean that we just need to go deeper in rather than out. Relating on a superficial level eventually becomes dull or even worse. Though it can be frightening, little is more satisfying than expressing ourselves truthfully and allowing our vulnerabilities to show. Not speaking our truth in order to avoid conflict might seem like the high road, but it usually isn’t. When we don’t show up authentically, we don’t really live. The antidote to most relationship doldrums is to become more curious about others and more honest about…

Ourselves.

Steve and Jarl