Just like facing the brunt force of the wind head-on, directly confronting the energy of opposing viewpoints can wear you out and leave you feeling tattered. When you remind yourself of the essential truth that positions (both yours and the other person’s) are partially informed perspectives that are simply your best guesses for the time being, you can soften a little, turn sideways and let the confrontational energy slide right on by you. Once the energy of direct opposition has passed, instead of doing combat to come to an understanding, you can…

Dance.

Jarl and Steve