Complaining about others is a pointless pastime. It’s impossible to be aware of every single experience someone else has had, so it’s unlikely that we’re qualified to judge and proclaim the right course of action for them. We all have to walk our own path. If they haven’t come to understand the brilliance that we see in our own perspectives, it’s because what we opine isn’t relevant for them. Since the only behavior we can really change is our own, when we’re having problems with others, the sane thing to do is…

Change ourselves.

Jarl and Steve