Think of how your life would be if you allowed every detail of it to be as it is without judgment or stress. You wouldn’t spend any time or energy fighting what’s already happened. This kind of acceptance doesn’t mean you’re stuck with things as they are. It doesn’t mean you have to pretend to like what you actually don’t. It just means not resisting what’s beyond your control. Once the milk has spilled, all you have to do is deal with it. When you don’t have a story that something shouldn’t have happened, it’s…

So much easier.

Jarl and Steve