Maybe Means No
It’s normal to occasionally be unsure about whether or not you care to do something. But delaying your response to others is like leading them on. Suggesting you might be a ‘yes’ when you’re probably a ‘no’ actually isn’t kind. The longer you wait, the harder it’ll be for you to say ‘no’ and the more disappointed they will be. It’s easier for all involved to turn a ‘no’ into a ‘yes’ than a ‘maybe’ into a ‘no’. Try it out the next time you’re on the fence about something. Just say…
‘No’ for now.
Jarl and Steve
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