The need to control everything comes from fear. Wanting life to go the way we think it should and feeling distressed when it doesn’t, takes the enjoyment out of life. Surveying our surroundings and noticing how much of it we didn’t actually create, helps us consider the possibility that things might actually be okay without our constant direction. Instead of imposing our will on every situation, becoming clear about how we’d like it and then letting go a little helps us delight in the magic of allowing. We open ourselves to delightful serendipity when we…

Relax and trust.