When we find ourselves caught in a familiar argument or drama with someone, we can be the one to step up to higher ground by trying to find a resolve rather than prove who's right and wrong. We can stop the tug-a-war by listening for a moment, acknowledging their point of view and admitting where we're wrong. We can let them know we really hear them and apologize, if necessary. We can assure them that we'll work on changing the dynamic. Our ego won't like it at first, but when we model mature behavior...

 

We'll love the results.